2 Addicts & A Moron

EP 7: Clean Cause

In this episode, the hosts discuss their experiences with addiction and offer insights on how to support someone struggling with addiction. They also talk about the importance of tough love and the challenges of enabling. The hosts share personal stories and emphasize the need for love, compassion, and understanding when helping someone with addiction. They also discuss the impact of addiction on their lives and the importance of working the steps in recovery. The episode ends with announcements about future plans and the importance of seeking help from professionals.Keywordsaddiction, support, tough love, enabling, personal stories, love, compassion, understanding, working the steps, recovery, announcements, seeking helpTakeawaysSupporting someone with addiction requires tough love and setting boundariesEnabling can prolong the addiction and prevent the person from seeking helpLove, compassion, and understanding are essential when helping someone with addictionWorking the steps in recovery is a transformative processSeeking professional help is crucial for effective support and treatmentSound Bites"Supporting the people who love the addict""The importance of tough love in helping someone with addiction""The challenges of supporting someone with addiction"Chapters00:00Introduction and Episode Milestone06:16Supporting the People Who Love the Addict18:08The Power of Tough Love26:21Challenges of Supporting Someone with Addiction39:37Working the Steps and Supporting Each Other in Recovery45:54The Controversy of Using Kratom as a Replacement

EP 6: Q&A - PT.2

In this episode, the hosts express their gratitude for the growth of their podcast and the support of their listeners. They share a heartfelt message about the impact they are making and the importance of sharing personal stories. The conversation then transitions to the theme of redirecting entrepreneurial spirit in recovery. The hosts discuss their own experiences of pursuing their passions and finding purpose in sobriety. They emphasize the importance of patience, building a solid foundation, and defining success on one's own terms. They also highlight the need to surround oneself with the right people and maintain moral integrity. In this conversation, the speakers discuss their motivations for being better people to themselves and others. They reflect on their past actions and the damage they caused while in addiction. They emphasize the importance of surrounding themselves with positive influences and staying committed to their recovery. They also talk about navigating regular life sober and how they handle temptations and triggers. The speakers express gratitude for their sobriety and the opportunity to live a fulfilling life without the need for drugs or alcohol.Keywordsgratitude, growth, impact, personal stories, entrepreneurial spirit, recovery, passions, purpose, patience, foundation, success, right people, moral integrity, motivation, addiction, recovery, sobriety, positive influences, regular life, temptations, triggers, gratitudeTakeawaysExpressing gratitude for the growth of a podcast and the impact it is making can be a powerful motivator.Sharing personal stories can inspire and help others who are struggling.Redirecting entrepreneurial spirit in recovery involves finding new passions and defining success on one's own terms.Patience and building a solid foundation are key to pursuing goals in sobriety.Surrounding oneself with the right people and maintaining moral integrity are important for long-term success. Motivation for being a better person comes from realizing the damage caused in addiction and wanting to make amends.Surrounding oneself with positive influences and supportive people is crucial for maintaining sobriety.Navigating regular life sober requires self-awareness, setting boundaries, and avoiding triggers.Sobriety brings a sense of gratitude and the ability to live a fulfilling life without the need for drugs or alcohol.Sound Bites"This thing has grown like a goddamn weed""We're just three regular dudes that are foot soldiers in the world of addiction and now foot soldiers in the world of sobriety""All of our voices matter. All of our stories matter. And there's no pain is pain. Hurt is hurt. Loss is loss.""You can't take it with you, but you can leave it here.""My biggest motive is my daughter.""Your story isn't finished."Chapters00:00Gratitude and Growth05:00Foot Soldiers in Addiction and Sobriety10:47The Importance of Sharing Stories13:11Embracing Vulnerability and Weirdness18:04Passion and Purpose in Sobriety23:01Patience and Building a Solid Foundation26:24Defining Success on One's Own Terms31:11Surrounding Oneself with the Right People32:39Maintaining Moral Integrity33:33Finding Motivation in Making Amends37:30The Importance of Positive Influences43:22Navigating Regular Life Sober49:34Gratitude for Sobriety

EP 5: Q&A - PT.1

In this episode, the hosts discuss various topics related to addiction and recovery. They start by introducing themselves and their backgrounds. They then talk about a humorous concept called 'carpet farming,' which refers to the act of searching for drugs in the carpet. The hosts also address the role of faith in sobriety and offer advice to those who may struggle with it. They share personal experiences and emphasize the importance of developing a relationship with a higher power. The conversation then shifts to discussing dreams of relapse and how to cope with them. In this part of the conversation, the hosts discuss vivid dreams in recovery and the challenges of dating while in recovery. They also touch on the impact of addiction on parents and the importance of setting boundaries and seeking support. The hosts emphasize the need for self-love and self-care in order to have healthy relationships.Keywordsaddiction, recovery, carpet farming, faith, sobriety, higher power, dreams of relapse, vivid dreams, recovery, dating, boundaries, support, addiction, parents, self-loveTakeawaysCarpet farming is a humorous term used to describe the act of searching for drugs in the carpet.Having faith in a higher power can play a significant role in recovery, but it is a personal journey and not everyone may have the same beliefs.Developing a relationship with a higher power can provide guidance, support, and a sense of peace in recovery.Dreams of relapse are common in early recovery, but they can be managed by staying connected to recovery resources and doing the necessary work.It is important to have patience and trust the process of recovery, even when facing challenges or doubts. Vivid dreams in recovery can be intense and feel very real.Dating in recovery requires self-reflection and being ready to show up in a healthy way.Setting boundaries and seeking support are crucial in maintaining sobriety while in a relationship.Addiction can have a profound impact on parents, causing worry, hurt, and feelings of helplessness.Learning about addiction and setting healthy boundaries can help parents support their children without enabling their addiction.Self-love and self-care are essential in order to have healthy relationships.Sound Bites"Carpet farming is one of the funniest fucking things I've ever heard in my life.""Trust God a little bit, learn how to trust him, learn how to get that trust back for him, and then start asking him for things, start having conversations with him.""Dreams of relapse were about as real as they possibly can be. I don't have them as much anymore.""These dreams can be so vivid and so real.""Dating in recovery. Dating a normie. Dating a recovered addict.""Your sobriety should be number one."Chapters00:00Introductions and the Concept of Carpet Farming11:29The Role of Faith in Sobriety26:44Coping with Dreams of Relapse29:28The Intensity of Vivid Dreams in Recovery32:26Navigating Dating in Recovery36:14The Impact of Addiction on Parents45:11Setting Boundaries and Seeking Support53:08The Importance of Self-Love in Relationships

EP 4: Acceptance!

In this episode, the hosts discuss the theme of acceptance in addiction recovery. They share personal stories of accepting their past actions and the challenges faced by their loved ones in accepting their apologies. They also explore the concept of surrender and the importance of surrendering control over addiction. The hosts discuss the role of impulsivity in their addiction and the need to surrender the desire to use drugs. They also touch on the topic of relationships in recovery and the challenges of finding acceptance and surrender in romantic relationships. The episode concludes with a discussion on the difficulty of accepting outcomes when trying to help others in recovery. In this part of the conversation, the hosts discuss the importance of acceptance in recovery. They share personal experiences of accepting the outcomes of their actions and the challenges they faced in the process. They also emphasize the need to let others go on their own journey and not enable them. The hosts talk about the dangers of giving money to people in addiction and the responsibility they feel to not contribute to someone's potential overdose or death. They also touch on the topic of healthy relationships and the importance of taking things slow and letting them develop naturally.Keywordsacceptance, addiction recovery, surrender, past actions, apologies, impulsivity, relationships, helping others, acceptance, recovery, personal experiences, enabling, healthy relationshipsTakeawaysAcceptance is a crucial aspect of addiction recovery, both for individuals in recovery and their loved ones.Surrendering control over addiction is necessary for long-term recovery.Impulsivity can be a challenge in addiction recovery, and self-awareness is key to managing it.Finding acceptance and surrender in romantic relationships can be difficult but is essential for healthy partnerships in recovery.Helping others in recovery requires acceptance of outcomes and the understanding that everyone's journey is unique. Acceptance is a crucial aspect of recovery, and it involves acknowledging and embracing the outcomes of one's actions.Letting others go on their own journey is important, even if it is difficult to watch them make the same mistakes.Giving money to people in addiction can enable them and contribute to their potential overdose or death.Taking things slow and allowing relationships to develop naturally is essential for building healthy connections.Acceptance requires a shift in perspective and a willingness to face and address past mistakes.Sound Bites"Acceptance, it's something that I've struggled with my whole life.""Acceptance, it's over with, dude, let it go.""Sometimes it's not rejection. It's God's redirection.""It sucks to watch sometimes, but they have to go and find out for themselves.""I can't send you money. I'm not going to be a participant in your potential overdose or death.""I can finally let things happen naturally and organically and embrace this is meant to be great."Chapters00:00Introduction and Expectations03:15Acceptance and Surrender in Addiction Recovery10:45Navigating Relationships in Recovery21:35Challenges of Helping Others in Recovery33:25The Importance of Acceptance35:17Letting Others Go on Their Own Journey36:41The Dangers of Enabling and Giving Money38:36Building Healthy Relationships39:05The Power of Taking Things Slow48:33Embracing a Shift in Perspective

EP 3: Hard Times Don’t Last!

In this episode, the hosts introduce themselves and discuss their roles in the podcast. They also talk about their new sponsor, share updates on their recovery steps, and discuss how they deal with bad days and urges to use drugs. They emphasize the importance of working the steps, relying on a support system, and staying connected to a higher power. In this conversation, the guest shares his experiences with addiction and recovery, specifically focusing on the dangers of fentanyl and the importance of using one's voice to help others. He discusses the mindset and triggers associated with addiction, as well as the impact it had on his relationships, including his daughter. The guest emphasizes the need for balance, gratitude, and staying connected to a support system in order to maintain sobriety. He also highlights the power of sharing one's story and being of service to others in recovery.Keywordsintroduction, recovery, steps, sponsor, bad days, urges, support system, higher power, addiction, recovery, fentanyl, mindset, triggers, relationships, balance, gratitude, support system, sharing, serviceTakeawaysIntroducing oneself and sharing personal experiences can help create a connection with the audience.Working the recovery steps and having a support system are crucial for maintaining sobriety.Dealing with bad days and urges to use drugs requires finding healthy coping mechanisms and relying on a higher power.Sharing vulnerabilities and seeking help from others can lead to personal growth and a stronger recovery journey. The guest emphasizes the importance of using one's voice to help others in recovery and to prevent further deaths from addiction.He discusses the dangers of fentanyl and the prevalence of its use in various drugs, highlighting the need for caution and awareness.The guest shares his personal experiences with addiction and the impact it had on his relationships, particularly with his daughter.He emphasizes the importance of balance, gratitude, and staying connected to a support system in order to maintain sobriety.Sound Bites"We lost our sponsor. It's fucking carrots and melted gummies.""Step work is actually pretty easy. Perspective is everything.""I wanna kill myself. I can't take this anymore.""Thank God I have to live like that.""Every time I would walk into a new bathroom.""I don't fear the disease of addiction anymore."Chapters00:00Introducing Ourselves02:57Losing and Finding a Sponsor04:50Step Update: Progress and Challenges12:31Dealing with Bad Days21:38Finding Support and Relying on a Higher Power38:18Urges to Use and Sobriety39:07Living with Addiction46:58Triggers and Temptations57:04Recovery and Breaking Records01:09:24Using Your Voice and Sharing Your Story

EP 2: Accountability & Amends

In this conversation, the hosts discuss the process of making amends in addiction recovery. They share personal experiences and reflections on the challenges and growth that come with making amends. They also touch on the impact of addiction on relationships and how sobriety has affected their approach to dating and building new connections. In this conversation, the speakers discuss their experiences with addiction and the challenges they faced in the workplace. They share stories of being homeless while working, using drugs while on the job, and the consequences they faced as a result. They also talk about the importance of finding a higher power, working the 12 steps, and the transformation that comes with recovery. The speakers emphasize the need for individuals to find their own path to recovery and the importance of sharing their stories to inspire others.Keywordsaddiction recovery, making amends, personal growth, relationships, sobriety, addiction, workplace challenges, homelessness, recovery, higher power, 12 steps, transformationTakeawaysMaking amends in addiction recovery is a process that requires self-reflection, accountability, and a genuine desire to change.Apologies in active addiction often lack sincerity and are not taken seriously by others.Making amends is not about showcasing personal growth, but about taking responsibility for one's actions and seeking forgiveness.Rebuilding relationships in sobriety requires self-awareness, growth, and a commitment to living by principles and values.Navigating dating and relationships in recovery can be challenging, and there may be a disconnect between those in recovery and those who have not experienced addiction. Addiction can have a significant impact on a person's ability to maintain employment and housing.Finding a higher power and working the 12 steps can be transformative in the recovery process.Recovery requires personal commitment and a willingness to change.Sharing personal stories of addiction and recovery can inspire others and provide hope.Each person's journey to recovery is unique, and it is important to find a path that works for them.Sound Bites"I was an avid. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry I'm so sorry and every time I said that I would go back and do the exact thing that I just apologize for""I wasn't raised to be a piece of shit. I wasn't raised to steal from people. I wasn't raised to lie to people. I wasn't raised to hurt people.""The road to hell is paved with good intentions.""I've had another job where this was back in 2021. This is my last job that I had that I was inactive addiction before I just gave up on the workplace and just stuck to the streets.""So, so, so just saying you can't be productive on meth is just absolutely false. Let's just say I got my steps in.""He goes, listen, man, I used to suffer from the same problem. What you talking about? He goes, I know what you're going through."Chapters00:00Introduction and Gratitude02:04The Importance of Making Amends08:31Reflecting on Past Actions and Values13:25Lessons and Growth from Relationships21:30Continued Growth and Building Better Relationships26:06Navigating Dating and Relationships in Recovery29:09The Disconnect Between Addiction and Normie Relationships34:02Employers' Understanding and Second Chances34:58Navigating Addiction and the Workplace36:32The Power of Finding a Higher Power38:02Transforming Lives Through Recovery39:12Inspiring Others Through Personal Stories40:39Finding Your Own Path to Recovery

EP 1: Pilot

This conversation is between two individuals who have struggled with addiction and a third person who loves someone with addiction. They discuss their personal experiences with addiction, including the initial attraction to drugs, the progression of their addiction, and the impact it had on their lives. They also touch on topics such as homelessness, toxic relationships, and the realization of being an addict. The conversation provides insight into the struggles faced by addicts and their loved ones, as well as the challenges of recovery. In this conversation, the speakers discuss their experiences with addiction and recovery. They share stories of seeking drugs on the streets, the challenges of getting sober, and the importance of forgiveness and self-growth. They emphasize the need for daily discipline and being of service to others in order to maintain sobriety. The speakers also reflect on the impact of their addiction on their relationships and the process of healing and rebuilding trust. They express their commitment to helping others who are struggling with addiction and mental health issues.Keywordsaddiction, struggles, love, insight, recovery, drugs, progression, impact, homelessness, toxic relationships, addiction, recovery, sobriety, forgiveness, self-growth, daily discipline, service, relationships, healing, trust, mental healthTakeaways• Addiction can start with experimentation and occasional use, but it can quickly progress to a daily habit.• Fear and a desire to escape pain or discomfort are common underlying factors in addiction.• Addiction can lead to homelessness and strained relationships, as well as financial and legal problems.• Realizing and accepting that one is an addict is a crucial step towards recovery.• Recovery is a challenging journey that requires support, self-reflection, and a commitment to change. Addiction can lead to desperate actions, such as seeking drugs on the streets and engaging in risky behaviors.• Getting sober requires daily discipline and a commitment to personal growth and self-improvement.• Forgiveness is an important part of the recovery process, both in forgiving oneself and seeking forgiveness from others.• Rebuilding trust in relationships takes time and consistent effort.• Being of service to others and helping fellow addicts is a crucial aspect of maintaining sobriety.• Addiction and mental health issues are prevalent and can affect anyone, but recovery is possible with the right support and mindset.Sound Bites• "I started getting high in my twenties. The addiction really started when I was like 32 or so, 32 till about 42, those 10 years. That's where I was getting high every single day."• "I'm a literal and actual product of substance abuse and recovery just from birth. My biological father, he was a heroin addict and crack addict, sex addict. My mom, all of you."• "The common thing that I heard between you two is the fear. You know, like that's kind of where it all kind of stems from. Fear of not belonging, fear of, fear of whatever. And you want something to make that go away."• "I remember going up to a guy on the block. I go, hey man, you got anything? You good? He goes, know, obviously there's suspicions. Who are you? don't. Yeah, it's not the most reputable world to be exchanging drugs on the streets."• "I'm a friggin junkie. I'm a junkie, bro. Can't you tell? Yeah That's what I do Yeah, that's what I do is who I am. I'm a freaking heroin addict to the extreme and I love it. I'm proud of"• "I used to be proud like that I could get dope from anywhere for any price. Why don't any block? I mean, I always tell people like you can drop me off in fucking Boise, Idaho and I'll find meth within five minutes."